answer me this and maybe i’ll respect a little of what you say. because right now it just looks like you’re doing nothing but accusing. hypocrite.
how are people supposed to receive help if they can’t help themselves? or maybe they’re just not willing to help themselves. stubborn.
i’m pretty sure i know who you are anyways since she doesn’t tell people things like what you just told me. not so anonymous anymore.
yes, i did say i would shun that girl. then i thought, why are they allowed to be her friend and i’m not? are we going to hold grudges against everyone that’s wronged us? forgive and forget. it was a “rumor” that maybe 20 people heard about. is anyone laughing at her because of it? she found another date anyways but wound up not going. why? i don’t know. you seem to know her so well, you tell me.
yes, he did tell her to avoid me. that was also the same day of the swim meeting. so wasn’t it a little late for me to pull out? oh, i almost forgot, why was she so mad that day? cause she took my phone and looked through my texts. invasion of privacy. and yes she’s been avoiding me. i hope she continues and lets see how that goes. tell me, does it look like there’s been improvement?
so. what do you want me to do? quit swimming?
tough luck bud. we all go through shit in our lives. newsflash for you. time won’t stop for you. you can either mope around and throw yourself a pity party every day or get up and move on with your life.
i’m not posting your ask cause you asked me to.
sorry if i again sound offensive or whatever. funny how anonymous people can have such an interest in something that does not involve them at all. unless you really are who i think you are. and if so why go anonymous? stop playing games.
its cruel because shes trying to move on and youre making it really hard on her. havent you dont enough already? ive seen the way she is now. shes not the same. sure she smiles. but she's broken down randomly in the middle of class several times. dont you think she has enough pressure already? you have most of senior year and all of junior year behind you. so why screw up an important semester for someone you so called cared about. yeah and id appreciate it if you stopped hurting my friend.
i still don’t see how it’s cruel. So her just seeing me is stopping her from moving on? do realize i have physics with her and sit behind her every day…i guess swimming just adds to that? Also note that while we were going out she wanted me to do swimming. After we broke up she told me that if im still a friend the least i could do is uphold my word and continue with swimming. and i’m in it now. i don’t see her complaining so i assumed it’s fine. Hey i want to be a true friend but i’m not going to go out of my way anymore since i did that enough when we were going out. and is that the real reason why she’s unable to move on? do you really know her? maybe there’s more underneath that’s also stopping her from moving on. Stuff in her past that she told me and maybe i don’t understand all of it but i’m pretty sure i know alot more than alot of people and know that she is perfectly capable of pulling herself out of this. I want to be friends with her but just haven’t talked to her because she doesn’t even make eye contact with me. So let her be. if she reads this then i hope she knows i’m ready whenever she is. The last time i talked to her was after she threw french fries at me at the Counter because i talked to the girl who was spreading rumors about her (which i dont know if the girl really did spread rumors or what). yes i felt bad about that. i wont name any names but then i turn around and what do i see? the same friend she was eating lunch with all buddy buddy with the same girl that “spread” those rumors. the very guy that showed her the “rumor” text was talking to the girl too. so i get in trouble for talking to this girl when 2 of her “closest” friends were also talking her her? where’s the french fries thrown at them? seriously after that i realized how irrational and stupid this whole situation is. i just want you to know that story so you see that a such a minuscule incident can get blown out of proportion. Also, yes high school is almost done for me. But look at her first semester of junior year, i was still with her and what happened? she got 2 B’s ruining her valedictorianship. i also hope you know i helped her get 100% on her english final. so she had bad grades then when i WAS with her. and now i’m NOT with her…the same as her sophomore year when she didn’t have a boyfriend and had straight A’s. if YOU really cared about her, wouldn’t you want a distraction like me out of the picture?
i don’t care if i sounded cocky, arrogant or whatever in this post. Anonymous - either confront me and show me your face so i can tell you this in person or get your facts straight before you accuse people of anything. you don’t think i don’t care about her as a friend? show your face and we can see what YOU’VE done for her. then you can tell me who the real friend is.
i would comment on everything you’ve ever blogged or put on facebook to give people the other side of the story but seriously, what’s the use…there does not seem to be any good that comes out of it.
just for the record:
i’m sorry it STILL happens that everything i do or say ends up in a fight.
you were ready before and i wasn’t
now i’m ready and you aren’t.
I’m sorry for talking to people that i shouldnt have. that was my most recent offense. hopefully i can be a true friend, the type that you’ve defined in your mind. because i’d hate for what’s happened in the past affect what could happen in the future.